Signs of a Cheating Spouse

When Women are Cheating

  • Changing Cell Phone Habits:
    • Always on silent/vibrate
    • They turn off their phone around you
    • Blocked numbers
    • "Wrong numbers"
    • Constantly deleting calls or text messages
    • New phone number
    • They hide their phone
    • They don't answer their phone when you or someone else calls
  • She has new girlfriends she's hanging out with that you have not met or don't know
  • New underwear/thongs and/or perfume
  • Working out or dieting all of a sudden
  • Doesn't wear her wedding ring (look for a tan line)
  • She starts tanning or is all of a sudden more concerned about her appearance
  • Wants to start taking the pill
  • She has a hidden email account and won't give you the password
  • Unexplained scratches and bruises (knees and back)
  • Works late and talks a lot about that "one guy" at work
  • Excessive shopping but doesn't buy much
  • Stains on clothes (especially white ones)
  • Wants less sex or interested in trying new positions or new things
  • Too dressed up for common situations (i.e. - grocery shopping doesn't require little black dress and high heels, etc.)

When Men are Cheating

  • Changing Cell Phone Habits:
    • Always on silent/vibrate
    • They turn off their phone around you
    • Blocked numbers
    • "Wrong numbers"
    • Constantly deleting calls or text messages
    • New phone number
    • They hide their phone
    • They don't answer their phone when you or someone else calls
  • He has new guy friends you haven't met or don't know
  • New underwear and/or new cologne
  • Working out or tanning all of a sudden; losing weight and more image conscience
  • No wedding ring
  • Has condoms in vehicle or wife is on the pill
  • Viagra even if not needed
  • Hidden email account and won't give you password
  • Unexplained scratches and bruises (knees and back)
  • Scratches on back or neck
  • Fishing trips but forgets his tackle box
  • Working late and on weekends at no extra money
  • Unexplained cash ATM withdrawals
  • If he takes a bath or shower immediately without letting you near him
  • Hides and washes clothes he wore that day
  • Nervous when asked about a certain female (sweating, defensive)
  • Accuses you of cheating to deflect attention off himself